Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream? We all have a taste down there. Avoid garlic, onions, asparagus, and cabbage, which reportedly make for a less-than-pleasant flavor. Any skin-to-skin contact with the genitals can spread STIs. The same goes for contact with vaginal, penile, or anal secretions. But did you know that you should be getting regular oral exams , too?
When something works, keep it consistent
Try different techniques
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. You can never be too fabulous or too good at oral sex. Fact: Your oral sex skills always have room for improvement. Thus, we must learn and embrace knowledge. Nearly every person with a clitoris needs clit stimulation to experience orgasm , and it just so happens that one of the easiest way to get that stimulation is with oral sex. Here are cunninlingus tips every human being should have on lock. Read, embrace, and send on to your partner immediately. Life is too short for mediocre oral. Try different techniques.
Step 2. Find the perfect position
It's the top sexual act for successfully reaching orgasm. Having a partner's full concentration on your clitoris, vulva, and vagina allows you to lie back and enjoy the pleasure to the fullest. Even though some people are a little apprehensive about oral sex, consider being open to exploration. Getting up close and personal with your partner's taste and smell, and figuring out how they like to be touched, licked, and rubbed can be sexy. There are so many ways to receive and give oral sex. It's exciting to figure out which oral sex positions work for you and your partner.
Just like the rest of your sex routine, oral benefits from regularly mixing it up. Mix up your oral game by physically moving around and trying new positions, just like you do in the rest of your sex life. The more body parts that are in the air, the better. Mix it all up by bringing your sex life into new and unexpected places. If your mouth and hands are tired they do a lot of work all day, we get it! Not all porn is created equal, and there are tons of ethical, very chill options out there for those who are so inclined to enjoy. Find a flick you both like, maybe watch for some new moves or tips, and then get to it while the people onscreen are getting to it behind you. Mare Simone , a certified tantra educator, says that using your hot breath to stimulate nerve endings is an amazing way to ramp up foreplay before diving in. This works just as well with fellatio as it does with cunnilingus. Think about it.