This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. I can relate to this post. I just started dating this guy and he is not only in the army, but a doctor. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree.
All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and she really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. Be open and talk about your ideals. Where do you find Mormon girls.
I am actually tired of the "excuse" that his work is so important or it's a calling. What if you are sexually incompatible. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself.
As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. Maybe we'll break up in a month. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold. Thanks for sharing your story. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop.