Everyone deserves to get kinky in a dorm at least once in their lives. All photos by author. For most people who had to jump through the mental gymnastics clusterfuck of sneaking people into their parent's house during their teenage years, dorm sex can seem like a big step up.
More on that in a second…. Also, though most shared dorm rooms are still single sex, more than colleges, including Brown University , Stanford University , The University of Pennsylvania , Oberlin College , Clark University , and the California Institute of Technology , now allow some or all students to share a room with anyone they choose—and we mean anyone. And, yes, you both might be naked. And as for simply sharing bathroom space with the opposite sex? Beyond bathrooms, co-ed dorms are pretty much like any other dorms, except, you know, co-ed. RAs plan events.
My first day of college has been burned into my memory. It's one of the most terrifying flashbacks I have, and trust me, honey: I have a never-ending laundry list of terrifying flashbacks that constantly invade the surface of my brain. Did anything bad happen that first day? I mean, I was an east coast baby suddenly thrust into wild, wild southern California.
For many people, going away to college provides them with their first real opportunity to explore their sexuality. This newfound freedom is exhilarating, but there are some minor obstacles to work around — namely the dorm rooms themselves. With roommates, twin XL-sized mattresses, and super thin walls, figuring out how to have sex in a college dorm room and actually enjoy it can be challenging. Your RA will give you the low-down on fire safety and underage drinking, but there are some tips you have to learn on your own. Consider this your unofficial syllabus for dorm sex In this introductory lesson, I'll cover the terms you need to know sexiling, anyone? Once you've mastered the vocabulary, I'll provide you with tried-and-true hacks for acing this hands-on course. I assure you, this is one seminar that has real-world applications. Oh, and you are encouraged to practice outside of class. Just remember to be safe.