One of my goals as a mother has been to teach my children to be comfortable with their bodies. It was easy when they were little. They saw no need to lock bathroom doors or hide while they were changing. Clothes were nothing more than an obstacle to their play that they would seize any opportunity to slip out of. And I let them.
She Wanted Her Son To Live In America And I Became Their Scapegoat
It was around ten years ago, and my son and daughter were in the bath together. My son was around five, my daughter around three, and they were used to seeing each other naked. They knew that boys had a penis, and girls had a vagina, and that bums were the funniest things in the world. I left the room for a moment to check on dinner, and when I returned to the bathroom, my son had some wonderful news. Yes, my kids had been doing some examination, and discovered a part of my daughter's anatomy, nestled away in her nether regions. They were both delighted with the discovery, and terribly excited to tell me the news. At the time, I thought it was hysterically funny, as did the friends and family with whom I shared the story. Many of my friends had their own, similar tales, of siblings checking each other out in the bath, and making earth-shattering discoveries about each others' private parts. I hadn't thought about this particular incident for many years, until I read the storm about Lena Durnham's book. Ms Durnham has written about investigating her younger sister's vagina at the age of seven, and has been accused of sexual abuse for having done so.
Her sister came to the door and said my girlfriend was going to be late back from work but she invited me in. You may be breaking no laws by having sex with this girl but what you have done is morally very wrong. Your girlfriend has been doubly betrayed by the two people she thinks she can best trust and rely on. Tell her this must end now with no word to her sister, as it would only distress her. Got a problem? Write to Deidre here. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
Anonymous in Dirty Picture on 22 March, Report this story. Submit Cancel. We are family of four - myself, my elder sister who is one year older than me, my mother and father. We are quite traditional, and our parents were strict. This is the story of when I was about years old. I was mostly an outgoing guy, I would play a lot of games and be always out of the home. As our upbringing was strict, and my mom was a working woman, she always made sure that I respect my sister and other girls, and most of the household work was done by me. My parents never asked my sister to do some work or go get groceries.